I was recently surprised by something that my wife thinks is sexy.
When am I most attractive?
It’s not when I’m all dressed up. It’s not when I’m working in the yard. It’s not even when I’m doing my daily push-ups and crunches.
She thinks my Bible is sexy
It’s early in the morning, I’ve got pillow hair, somewhat sleepy looking eyes, my reading glasses perched on the end of my nose and my Bible in my lap. That’s the look she likes the most. That’s when I’m at my sexiest in my woman’s eyes. She’s pretty smart.
She knows if I …
- Really love God
- Rreally love my kids
- Really love her
Then I’m gonna spend time in God’s Word.
Me loving those three things is very important to her and that’s why she thinks my Bible ‘s sexy.
It is good look for us
Now don’t get me wrong, she likes it when I dress up for her. She also likes it when I work on those wonderful home improvement chores that seem to be never-ending. There has also been many times that me doing a so called “unmanly” task like cooking or doing the dishes has elicited a nice moment of affection..like a hug or a kiss (to keep this G rated).
All of these “looks” can look pretty good on us gentlemen but the best look, if you’re married to a Jesus follower, is the look with an open Bible in your hands.
I believe a Godly woman is more attracted to what’s in the heart than to what’s on the outside.
After all, if she is Godly then she will tend to think a little more like the Lord who told Samuel “man looks at the outward appearance but the Lord looks at the heart”.
Share your stories, I would love to hear them.
How has your relationship with the Lord had a postive imapct on your marriage? As we share our stories, we can motivate others to become the men that God desires us to be.